After years of studying the female psyche, Emory became a master of knowing what buttons to push to get a woman to fall for him. When he met Sonia, a 21-year-old model, I watched him in action. Keep in mind that Emory is 35, average-looking at best, stands 5’6” and squeaks by on a meager salary.
He read the book The Game by Neil Strauss, watched the films Swingers and The Tao of Steve, and learned that we pursue that which retreats from us. When we move towards someone, either physically (on the dance floor, for example) or by showering them with attention, they usually back up. When we move away, they maintain equilibrium by moving forward.
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